Anonymous: Thanks again for all the advice you have really been so sweet and helping me. I decided it is time to let go of this chapter in my life and I will be moving home to Washington and there is no longer a boyfriend in my life right now.

You’re welcome, love. I’m here if you need me.

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Anonymous: He wants to go run off and go to Vegas with his boys and their ladies plus his ex is going. How do I even begin to allow that to happen? I said it was fine but deep down inside it isn't because how do you find out if something happens?

Oh, love. Why would you say it’s okay when it isn’t? This boy will keep pushing boundaries if you don’t speak up and say something. The fact that his ex is tagging along also just doesn’t sit well with me. Long distance relationships are not easy at all. The only thing you have is communication between each other when you’re apart. You say he’s distant from you but have you ever asked him why he does that? I know you’ve never caught him cheating but do you really feel like he has? If you can’t trust him then what is the basis of this relationship? What is the relationship running on? You need to have a serious talk with each other. You need to lay everything out on the table. Everything you are feeling and everything you have felt. Don’t be scared to show your emotions. If you can’t show him the real you, then what are you showing him?

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Anonymous: Haven't heard back from you and just hoping everything is fine with you and your boyfriend. I got into a big fight with mine and just hoped that you were around to talk.

What happened love?

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Anonymous: Where do you get all your inspiration for your notes?

Life mostly. It’s the best inspiration.

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alorathexplora: Inspiring blog <3

Thanks love (:

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Anonymous: Your blog really speaks out to me and it makes me feel like I am not the only one in this world going through these crazy emotions. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I just can't trust him anymore. Weird to ask a stranger for advice but what do I do?

I’ve thought about what advice I can give you all day and to be honest its been quite difficult to come up with something that you have probably already heard. I’m sure you’ve heard that you should leave him or you should try and make it work. But no one, not even me, knows your true feelings. I’ve been seeing my guy for a little over a year and he has by far done more to me than any other man I’ve been with. He has cheated and lied about major things in our relationship. Did I ever feel like leaving him? Yes. Have I? No. Maybe it’s because I still feel that there is real love between us. Or maybe I’m just afraid to let him go and start over with someone new. If I met someone I would feel like I would project my past relationship issues on them and that isn’t fair. I am confused about what I should do most days but other days we just connect on a level that my love just grows for him. It doesn’t fade. I’m not trying to tell you my relationship drama, but if you are feeling any of this then you aren’t alone. I can’t tell you what to do, love. I can only tell you to think about what you feel really on the inside. Is your happiness with him only temporary because you’re scared to move on? Are you even happy? Can you feel in your heart that you will be able to trust him fully again? If this is all leading towards negative answers then it’s time to reevaluate things. I may not know you but I want you to be happy, love. True love will find you in the end.

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I think I love you still. But it’s the ‘I think’ that gets me worried. I used to be so sure of my love for you. I thought our love could go through anything. I think it’s starting to catch up to me everything you’ve done. How can I love you if I can’t trust you? How can I love you when I think of what has gone wrong in our relationship all the time? It weighs in my mind and I feel like it’s chaining me down. What am I supposed to do now? I know I can’t let you go. I know that I won’t stop loving you. But it feels like we’re falling apart. Do you feel it, too?

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I’m tired of this repetitive cycle we have with one another. One day we’re fine and we are happy with each other. Maybe the next day we are, too. But then the third or fourth day comes and we are at odds with each other. We fight over petty things that shouldn’t matter but in that moment they are the most important. We’ll leave each other on a bad note. We’ll say things that we both will take in the wrong way. We won’t talk but we’ll both will be waiting for the other to text or call. Or at least I do. And once we do talk we will be at peace with one another until something goes wrong. I love you but I’m tired. Aren’t you, too?

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